Have you ever had a moment in your life when you have stopped and said to yourself, “How did this happen to me? How did I get so lucky?” One of those moments for me was last April, when I was recognized for my volunteer efforts for a local theater. After friends rose to say nice things, a video played, with congratulations and “love, love, love” from Broadway legend Chita Rivera!
WHAT!?!
I first met Chita in 2003, when I worked with her at the Kennedy Center Honors. It was a blast, and we had an ongoing friendship ever since.
We worked together again in 2010, and shared time in Washington and New York when schedules allowed. One unforgettable evening in 2013, my husband and I attended her performance in Provincetown, MA and then went out with her for cocktails and pizza. We stayed in touch until her death in January, one week after her 91st birthday.
Chita was an extraordinary dancer, singer, and actor. She starred in the Original Broadway production of “West Side Story” in 1957, and the rest is theater history: 18 Broadway shows, 10 Tony Award nominations, winning two times. In addition to Anita in “West Side Story”, she created such iconic roles as Rosie in “Bye Bye Birdie”, Velma Kelly in “Chicago”, and the title role in “Kiss of the Spider Woman”.
When she passed away, accolades and tributes poured in from countless people to whom she was a friend and a role model, not only for her dedication to her craft, but for the way she gave of herself, her talents, and her love. Two words came up over and over again: “inspiration” and “heart”. It was clear that I was only one of many who adored her and had been inspired by her.
So…how was I so lucky as to count her as a friend? In one of life’s odd happenstances, our bond grew deeper because of my 2014 spinal cord injury, as we shared experiences in injury and rehab.