Discovering Self-Love and Accepting My Post-SCI Body
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Become an AdvocateIt took me a few years of being in this body to begin to fully appreciate my existence within it.
I learned self-love through meditation and philosophy. I worked on letting go. I cultivated gratitude and grace for other people and myself. I learned to love my body beyond surface-level reasons.
When I look in the mirror now, I see a delicate creature with unmatchable wit, talent, and resolve. My body is as soft and supple as a flower, unlike the sculpted muscle that I once took pride in. But I discovered beauty in this new body, especially since it contains a genuine force to be reckoned with within.
I feel proud of this body, which carried me across steel beams 80 feet in the air for a decade of my life. This body jumped off bridges, swam in lakes, hiked mountains, birthed a child, and survived a crushed vertebrae an inch away from the brain stem.
I look at this body with love now, choosing to celebrate it for all its achievements.
This body is deserving of love, regardless of its dysfunction.
I choose to celebrate its beauty, exactly as is.
Cassandra Brandt is an Arizona-based author and advocate for marginalized people. You can find her memoir, Iron Girl: Tomboy, Tradeswoman, Tetraplegic, on Amazon.