Living with paralysis – or caring for a loved one with paralysis – can bring added stress into one’s life. Recovering from trauma, adjusting to a new normal, overcoming disability barriers, reestablishing purpose, and maintaining a healthy support system are critical components of stress management after a spinal cord injury. Everyone will cope in different ways, but we all have basic needs – diet, exercise, and sleep – and there are standard wellness practices for each of these three areas that I like to address with my clients as a starting point. It may sound simple, but assessing your basic needs is an important prerequisite to living better. Today I will focus on diet, and my next two blogs will address exercise and sleep.
Avoid consuming “empty calories,” or foods that don’t provide adequate nutrition, such as processed foods, desserts, energy drinks and sodas, chips, and candy, as these can lead to “sugar highs” followed by periods of depression, cravings, and sluggishness. Specifically, sugar, caffeine, and greasy foods are known to contribute to anxiety. It’s okay to indulge yourself once in a while, but moderation is key.
During a stressful day, have you ever skipped sitting down for a balanced meal and decided to grab fast food on the road instead? Or maybe there is no time for lunch, so you double up on coffee and call it good. Most of us are crunched for time, and these habits are tempting, but it’s important to notice the impact on our mental health. Lethargic afternoons at work because your body lacks nutrients might mean you end up working longer hours, cutting into your downtime. Maybe when you get home from work, you are so drained from poor nutrition that you crash instead of doing stimulating activities for your mental health. Some of these activities could be going outside, doing a craft, or playing a game. Eating well throughout the day provides fuel for your body and brain to function properly. Sometimes it might feel like a chore, but prioritizing time for meals can significantly improve your energy and mood throughout the week.
It’s also important to avoid over-eating or under-eating. When feeling depressed, anxious, or overwhelmed, people are more likely to notice a change in their normal eating habits. Binge eating is common when food is used as a self-soothing method. Although it might feel comforting at the moment, most people with binge eating habits end up feeling more fatigued, more insecure due to weight gain, more unable to cope with life’s difficulties, and more likely to experience guilt, shame, and frustration. On the other hand, some people may lack an appetite when feeling overwhelmed and eat too little. These individuals may experience unhealthy weight loss, malnutrition, and difficulty concentrating. Like the effects of binge eating, people who eat too little might feel more fatigued, unable to cope with life’s difficulties, and more likely to experience frustration.
To avoid the risk of over-eating or under-eating, try to listen to what your body needs by eating slowly and monitoring how “full” you feel. You may also benefit from asking friends or family members for help with accountability. If you or the people in your life are concerned about your eating habits, reach out to a mental health professional. Unhealthy eating habits can increase your risk of developing serious eating disorders like bulimia and anorexia, which cause significant health problems and can even be fatal if left untreated. Don’t be afraid to ask for help – getting better is worth it!
Finally, here are some tips and tricks to improve your mental health and eating habits. Most people find it stressful to prep meals after work each night, so consider doing meal prep on the weekends and have everything ready to go for the week ahead. Heating food each night Monday through Friday instead of starting from scratch not only spares you the stress of making dinner decisions but also will save you tons of prep time and cleanup time. It’s also helpful to stay hydrated with a refillable water bottle to keep with you all day. It’s so easy to forget the importance of drinking water, but keeping an eye on your water intake will help you stay alert and focused throughout the day, helping you avoid physical and mental burnout. When grocery shopping, try to concentrate your shopping on the perimeter of the store where the fresh and frozen foods are, rather than in the center aisles where chips, cookies, cake boxes, and candy are stocked.
Whether you live with paralysis or care for a loved one with paralysis, be patient with yourself. Avoid perfectionism and remember that we all experience fluctuations in our efforts to be well. Be proud of yourself for learning about the connection between mental health and eating habits – use what you have learned to make small changes where you can and talk about your journey with others. Often, we learn the most by sharing our experiences with each other, so don’t be afraid to open up about your eating habits and brainstorm behavioral changes to improve your body and mind.
If you have questions or if I can be a resource for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Your mental health matters.
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Lauren Presutti, founder of River Oaks Psychology, is a psychotherapist and advocate for individuals and families affected by disabilities of all types. Born with Muscular Dystrophy and using a wheelchair throughout her life, Lauren is passionate about helping others overcome barriers and reach their fullest potential. Lauren also enjoys writing, speaking, and providing education on subjects relating to mental health and empowerment.