The holiday season is often a joyous time. It allows us to spend time with loved ones and create wonderful memories. There is nothing that brings me more happiness than being surrounded by delicious food, and laughter, and exchanging gifts to show our gratitude towards each other.
While I am grateful to have had enjoyable holidays in the past, I have come to realize that there are factors that can negatively influence a person’s enjoyment during the holiday. As someone who uses a wheelchair, I have been invited to numerous holiday gatherings like Friendsgiving and Christmas parties but have been unable to attend due to inaccessibility issues. Sometimes where I could attend, I found myself unable to fully enjoy the festivities due to limitations, such as inadequate space for my wheelchair. These instances were disheartening, and I am aware that I am not alone in facing such challenges.
I want to share a few tips about ways to make holiday celebrations more inclusive because people with disabilities deserve to be a part of the celebration too!
Not all people with disabilities stay at home and never go out, contrary to a misconception. Many of us enjoy going out and spending time with people, particularly family and friends. Sometimes, we are not invited to events or choose not to attend due to concerns that the accommodations needed to assist us may be viewed as excessive. To foster a sense of inclusion for people with disabilities, it is important to convey appreciation and welcome. Additionally, it is beneficial to ask about the specific accommodations we may require to ensure our comfort and enjoyment at the event.
To cater to everyone’s disability, the required accommodations may vary. It is crucial to seek guidance from family members and friends who have a disability regarding the specific accommodations they may need to attend the event. By doing so, you demonstrate that their presence is valued, and their disability will not pose any obstacles or deter your desire to have them participate.