Even if everything relating to your paralysis is stable and you are managing it well, your everyday emotional experiences are valid and worthy of being explored and processed in a safe space with a trusted therapist. We all need someone to talk to from time to time. Some people find relief from symptoms associated with depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive tendencies, or behaviors like people-pleasing, perfectionism, or self-criticism, while others seek therapy to work on their self-worth so they can better understand their strengths, skills, and capabilities. Others come to therapy to learn coping skills, strategies for stress relief, interpersonal skills, or skills related to distress tolerance, mindfulness, managing negative thinking patterns, or fostering greater internal peace. Similarly, many people learn about self-care in therapy, which helps them prioritize their own needs and find greater balance in life. Many people also experience improved relationships after participating in therapy because stronger communication and interpersonal skills are developed through the counseling experience.
Therapy can also provide a greater sense of hope, optimism, and belief in your ability to manage the ups and downs of life. Sometimes therapy is the best outlet that a person can access because it provides a confidential space to express and regulate emotions. We can often feel mixed up with a variety of emotions in life that can feel overwhelming from time to time. Therapy allows you to verbally process what you are going through, which can sometimes lead to a greater sense of control. Other times, the work in therapy is centered on accepting things that are beyond your control, which is just as valuable for internal peace and happiness.
Perhaps most importantly, therapy often leads to people feeling more empowered. Many people with spinal cord injuries experience barriers in life that cause discouragement from time to time. Therapy allows them to identify these barriers, learn ways to tackle them, and as a result, develop a greater sense of personal pride and appreciation for themselves. Therapy also provides clarity and can help people embrace a greater sense of self-understanding, purpose, and clearer life goals.
If you feel like therapy can be helpful for you, don’t be afraid to speak up and ask for help. Check out local resources in your community or start a conversation with your doctor. To maintain a healthy, fulfilling life with paralysis, it’s so important to attend to the needs of both your body and mind. It’s also important to check in on each other, such as your family members or caregivers. Nobody is exempt from mental health, so don’t be afraid to start a conversation with the people in your life about how they are doing on the inside. Talking about what we all struggle with allows us to better connect with each other, and it helps to normalize asking for help. Always remember that whatever happens in life, you don’t have to face it alone.
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